The holidays are approaching, and everyone you know is searching for the best deals on gifts and trying to figure out how to avoid the stress that comes this time of year. If you want to enjoy more time and worry less about spending too much, check out these ideas to help you do both. It doesn’t take a lot of money to make the holidays enjoyable — just a lot of creativity and fun.
Set a budget
Most people don’t like the “budget” word — but if you decide how much you can spend, you are more likely to spend less.
Make a list
Make a list of people they want to remember during the holidays and use the list to help plan how to spend. Making a list of people and what you want to give them will keep you from buying more than you need. Instead of deciding on the gift first, decide on the dollar amount you want to spend, then find a gift that fits the bill.
Set a limit
Many friends and families enjoy white elephant or secret Santa gift-giving. Set a limit on how much you will spend — as little as $5 works. Have a gift exchange and enjoy the fun.
Order online
Save yourself time and money ordering online (but don’t be tempted to just point and click too quickly). Think about how much you want to spend and then search online for items to fit your budget. Shop where you can get FREE shipping, too. TIP: Put items in your cart and save them. Log out. You are likely to get an email the next day or two offering you FREE shipping if it wasn’t already available, and sometimes you’ll even get discounts on what is left in your cart. This happens frequently during holidays.
Give meaning
When it comes to gifts, nothing is better than receiving a meaningful gift. Don’t spend a lot on things that will bring joy for a few minutes. Think about what means the most to the person. You may find that gifts that cost less are often most meaningful.
Decorate with frugal flair
No one says you have to get caught up in the overpriced decorations of the holidays. Instead, look around your yard. You’ll find tree branches, holly, acorns, leaves and lots of other items. A bag of cranberries and popcorn create an old fashioned holiday trim. Or pour a bag of cranberries in a clear vase and tie it with a green ribbon. Homemade decorations created with flair are fun.
Make a gift
What’s better than homemade jelly, candy, cookies, pickles or trail mix? These make beautiful and delicious gifts. Present them in a clear Mason jar with a colorful ribbon and you’re done. (See our article on easy homemade gifts.)
Picture perfect giving
A photo collage or album filled with memorable photos taken throughout the year can make for a heartwarming gift. It takes a little time to pull them all together, but it’s worth it. Shutterfly, Costco, Amazon and other online resources print photos at very reasonable prices. Or try your local Walgreens or other retailers and compare prices. You can even print photos at home if you have a printer.
Host informal dinners
Elegant, sit-down dinners might be fun — but they can be expensive and stressful. Instead of spending hours cooking, decorating and over-spending, opt for simple dinners with finger foods and fun hors d’oeuvres.
Give time
Speaking of gifts, giving your time is the greatest gift of all and it’s essentially free. Volunteer at a homeless shelter, library, hospital, nursing home or anywhere else you can be of help. Just one volunteer visit can brighten the holidays for dozens of people.
Bake cookies
Everyone loves to receive home-baked cookies, and the ingredients don’t cost that much. Make it more festive by hosting a homemade cookie baking party, and invite children, friends or neighbors (especially elderly neighbors who may be lonely during the holiday season).
Collect food
Spend time collecting food for a food bank and deliver it. Better yet, ask friends to give you canned and nonperishable food items for your own holiday gift and then donate them to a shelter. Have your own food collection party during the holidays.
Clean your closets
You may find great gifts hidden in there. Donate gently used clothing to needy organizations. They are especially in need of coats and blankets during winter.
America’s got talent
If you’re a hairdresser, carpenter, plumber, accountant or seamstress, you have the greatest gift of all. Use any talent you have to give gifts to others by offering your services pro bono. Free haircuts, repairing a handrail, sewing curtains, preparing someone’s tax returns in January, or any other act of kindness using your skills is an awesome gift.
Potluck heaven
Thanksgiving and other holiday meals can be expensive for one person to manage. Have everyone bring a dish and put them all together. Provide the turkey or other item and let others bring sides and dessert. Let everyone help and you will save money and time, giving you more time to enjoy being together.
Donate
Making a charitable donation to honor another person is the perfect gift. Added bonus: You get a tax deduction!
Watch the sales
Finding a good deal is awesome, but just because something is on sale doesn’t mean you’re getting a good deal. Compare prices and make sure the store hasn’t upped prices just to offer a 10% discount, which puts the price right back where it started.
Shop around for toys
If toys are on the list, don’t buy too early, because most retailers and online deals kick into high gear in the first and second weeks of December. However, if you’re looking for toys that are likely to be in high demand, it may be worth the few extra dollars if someone has his or her heart set on it.
Use coupons
Search online for coupons to almost any store. Print them out and use them or use coupons online. You can find coupons by store name, brand or other detail. Check the midweek and weekend papers for coupons, too.
Shop thrift stores
If you’re searching for an item for a child and you’re not sure he/she is going to love it, consider a thrift store purchase. Gently used, restored items are less expensive, and if your child is not enamored with tennis or golf, you haven’t spent a bundle on the racket or clubs.
Start early and stop
Start early using your list and when you’ve gone through the list, stop (exception: See “shop around for toys” above). Don’t be tempted to buy just one more little item, because that one little item leads to another and another. Shopping early allows you to enjoy more time with family and friends during the holidays.
Post-holiday shopping
If you’re not visiting out-of-town family or friends until after the holiday passes, consider doing your shopping after the holiday. There may not be as much to choose from, but you’ll get some great deals. Who will know you shopped post-holiday? Another way to save: Reuse gift bags you saved from your own gifts.
Use cash
Set aside a specific amount to spend, and then use cash for purchases. You won’t be tempted to overspend if you don’t have the cash to dole out. When it’s gone, it’s gone.
Avoid credit cards
You end up paying a lot more for your gifts if you charge them. Interest can pile up quickly. Only charge what you can pay off within 30 days to avoid extra expense.
Be wary of Black Friday deals
Yes, they can be great. But don’t get caught up in the hype of Black Friday. Make sure what you’re getting is truly a deal — and more importantly, make sure you are buying something you really want. Retailers push Black Friday sales hard, and shoppers often over-spend and buy on impulse. Read the ads, check your list and plan your shopping strategy.
Enjoy free holiday concerts
There are a lot of high-priced concerts and performances during the holidays. But there are also plenty of free performances to enjoy. Local malls, parks, recreation centers, community organizations, churches and other places offer holiday music, plays and other entertainment. Tap into the free ones and enjoy a family time together. Your local Living on the Cheap website is a great place to check.
Avoid self-gifting
Oops! It can be tempting to purchase gifts for yourself while shopping for others. Manage the temptation and don’t buy things you don’t need just because they’re on sale or the ads are too tempting.
Snag freebies
The Internet is full of freebies from food and clothes to jewelry and other items. Just Google “freebies” and see what you find.
Focus on gratitude
Especially at Thanksgiving, we think about how grateful we are. Focus on gratitude for the holiday rather than the material gifts and high-dollar spending. Spend time with family and friends and forgo the gifts. Suggest to others that this is the year to focus on gratitude. Many people are likely thinking the same thing, but afraid to break tradition. They’ll be grateful you spoke up.
Plan travel early
If you’re traveling, it pays to plan early. You can shop around for deals on airfare, hotels and other expenses. If time is flexible, plan your travel to stay over a weekend or travel a few days earlier/later than the actual holiday. You may get a better deal and you’ll definitely avoid the huge crowds, especially on Thanksgiving. Consider traveling during odd hours such as taking the insane 5 a.m. flight rather than the 9 a.m. option. Many airlines offer better deals for flying at odd times.
Give a homemade coupon book
Another great gift idea: a coupon book that’s good for the coming year. Include coupons for babysitting, lawn mowing, car washes, meal preparation or anything else you can do for the recipient.
Use rewards points
You may have rewards points from credit cards, department stores or purchases you have made throughout the year. Cash in those reward points to get a gift for someone else.
Wrap your gift in a gift
A homemade loaf of bread wrapped in foil and tied up with a fresh new dishtowel and ribbon is the perfect gift. The wrapping is part of the gift. Be creative and wrap your gift in a gift. Put a fresh new set of sheets in a pillowcase, tie with a large ribbon and bow, and you’re done.
Cut the strings
OK, we’ve all done it. We keep giving gifts to people who we rarely see anymore because it’s a habit or we feel an obligation. Review your holiday shopping list and cut the strings where necessary. A holiday note and greeting will suffice in many cases.
Don’t overdo it
You likely receive lots of invitations to parties and holiday events that can end up costing you money for clothes, host/hostess gifts, travel and other expenses — not to mention your time. Consider each invitation and accept those that mean something to you and skip the others. Too many parties results in too much spending and too much stress. Keep it simple.
Janell says
Great tips. Focusing on gratitude was my favorite. It is often lost during the holidays especially.
Visiting from Frugal Friday Link up Party.
Jessica says
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Lauri says
I love these Ideas.!! Some.I haven’t even heard of doing. I am always looking for new ways to save. Thank you so much for your help. Lauri..